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Can We Get Married?
November 25th, 2009
BBC’s documentary, “Can We Get Married?” challenges the notion that people with disabilities cannot successfully maintain a committed and loving relationship. The documentary follows Emma Bishop and Ben Marshall – both are diagnosed with Down’s syndrome – who are very much in love and want to get married.
Emma and Ben live in a quaint community in Devon, UK. Even though the couple has been together for six years and want to get married, they face obstacles that many of us do not. Both sets of parents object. Emma’s mother worries about the finances involved, and the benefits systems poses a problem if Emma and Ben were to marry, even though they live together.
The thing with having Down’s syndrome is that sometimes you’re not treated like an adult,” explained Emma. “And people don’t listen to what you say.”
“Can We Get Married?” follows Emma and Ben throughout their decision on whether or not to take “the plunge.” Their mutual respect for each other, devotion and dedication has made for a strong relationship; certainly a recipe for a long and happy marriage.
“It’s just a bit of paper, getting married,” sighed Emma when she thinks of the road blocks society has put in the way of their getting married. While true, it means that she may not have the wedding of her dreams.